New Year, New You: Couple Resolutions for 2019
2018-12-30

Whether big or small, most of us make new year resolutions in a bid to start the year fresh. Couple resolutions are the same, where both parties commit to working on and growing the relationship. Ready to start 2019 on a high note? Here are 5 resolutions you can make as a couple for a healthier, stronger and happier relationship.

Kick a Bad Habit Together 

Out with the old and in with the new! Be it opening that second bag of chips after midnight or choosing to watch the entire season of your favourite TV show in one sitting over a gym session, resolve to kick a bad habit in favour of a healthier lifestyle. Alternatively, you might also want to kick a bad relationship habit. For example, resolve to avoid interrupting each other, especially during a disagreement. 

Start a New Hobby

Pick up something new together this year! The hobby doesn’t have to be anything too adventurous, but anything that you both enjoy such as cooking or even building a routine of going on daily evening walks will allow you to spend quality time together. Consider trying something that one of you is interested in to better understand your partner!

However, you should also resolve to embark on daily tasks together. As mundane as they may be, doing the laundry and paying the bills as a couple will help to build the foundation of your relationship.

Bid Grudges Goodbye

Don’t let previous squabbles follow – leave them behind and choose to move forward! Unless it’s a fundamental issue needs monitoring, neither of you should bring something that you’ve already settled on previously into a new fight. Refrain from focusing on the old issues and work to solve the problem by together. 

Put in the Effort

After a long day, you may be too emotionally drained to pay attention to and to ask about your partner’s day. But taking the time and effort to do so will better the foundation of your relationship. While the stories may not be the most intriguing, it’s important to listen and be genuinely invested in your partner’s life. 

Be Honest and Kind

Open communication is key. Instead of bottling your emotions and accumulating grievances, it’s always best to raise your concerns and talk it out. You should feel comfortable with being honest with your partner and this new year, make it a point to tell him/her instead of waiting for them to notice something that something is amiss. 

That said, remember to be tactful when communicating your thoughts. Again, focus on solving the issue together. Strive to be understanding, forgiving and make your relationship a much stronger, yet softer one this year!

While resolutions may appear basic, we assure you that they are no less challenging. Make these a part of your relationship to keep you and your relationship happy and healthy in the long term!