Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings
2018-10-10


Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings

Every culture has its own set of beliefs and practices, where superstitions are often an integral part of one’s culture. When it comes to the wedding, don’t be surprised by the number of taboos that your elderly relatives would insist you avoid. Though not as commonly seen through anymore, these unique wedding superstitions are still avoided by some weddings. From flipping the fish to avoiding the bridal bed, here are some intriguing wedding no-nos that still exist today!

Flipping the Fish

Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings

Although they may be a staple at hotel wedding banquets, flipping over that steamed fish on the table is a major taboo. Back when fishing was a way of life, flipping over a fish is thought to symbolise the capsizing of a fisherman’s boat. In the wedding context, it is thought to bring bad luck and misfortune to the couple. What to do with the bone then, you ask? Not to worry, simply remove it with a pair of chopsticks and the problem will be solved!

Months To Avoid

Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings

The Chinese believe that different months on the lunar calendar are associated with different fortunes. For instance, the seventh lunar month is a no-go as it coincides with the Hungry Ghost Festival, nor the third lunar month as it clashes with Tomb Sweeping Day. It’s better to be safe than sorry – so avoid holding your ceremony during these inauspicious months. Make sure to plan early to get the best Singapore wedding deals and best wedding venues in Singapore too.

Avoid the Number 4

Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings

The number 4 when pronounced in Mandarin sounds similar to the word, "death", therefore anything related to the number 4 should be avoided at all cost. The number 8 is a more popular choice as sounds very similar to prosperity in Mandarin. This is the reason why you see various permutations of the number 8 everywhere in Chinese weddings, bridal studios and almost every wedding ballroom!

Avoid Sleeping on the Bridal Bed

Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings

Traditionally, the newlyweds will spend their first night as an officially married couple on the bridal bed.  It is thus considered bad luck to sleep on the bridal bed before the ceremony, particularly after the bed’s been blessed for fertility. Leaving one side of the bed empty during the first four months of the marriage is also seen as a curse on the marriage, so be sure to keep a look out for that!

Zodiac and Horoscope Signs 

Wedding No-Nos: 5 Taboos to Avoid At Weddings

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While not so much as a taboo, this is one for the contemporary Chinese. For the believers, compatibility among zodiac and horoscope signs are essential in predicting a good future in relationships. This belief extends out to the bridal entourage as well, where it is best not to get bridesmaids or groomsmen with clashing horoscopes. Not to worry, they can still attend your wedding banquet as guests and share your joy! 

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