We met each other when we were in university. We both had no friends in school and with some twist of fate, I knew him through at chat group call the camp rejects. I had no friend and so I asked in the group if there’s anyone going for the same lecture. He replied he is and I ended up joining him and another guy for the lecture.
My first impression for him, super unfriendly. I never thought that this is the person I’m going to marry in future at the time when I met him.
We started texting because one day on the bus, he texted me, “Polka Dots Dress?”. That’s how we started talking to each other.We became real close uni friends together with the other guy. There’s time we go out together for dinner together, just the 2 of us and to be frank... I hated going out with him because he’s those type that will end up walking aimlessly after dinner. Ever since our first dinner meet up, I was like... omg why this guy like this one... I don’t want to go out with him anymore.
Over that one year we became closer and one day during a movie date, he held my hand and that’s how we started dating unofficially to the extend that few months down the road.. I decided to ask him... it it you forget to ask me something ? He said yes he know and wanted to wait for a special day, which I know it’s obviously my birthday.
On that day, he came to school and meet me. He told me in face and told me to be his girlfriend. I said yes without him finishing his well rehearse paragraph. We started dating since then.
“I love you not only for what you are but for what I am when I am with you.” - Roy Croft. This describes our relationship in summary. I’m so thankful to have this man in my life because he is someone with nice temper, he dotes next, he gives in to me and never quarreled with me (since we started dating).
With him, I changed a lot. I became less depressed, more positive, less stressful and more willing to accept changes and to explore step out of my comfort zone to try new things.
He motivates me and he pushes me to accept changes. He always tell me that tough times don’t last, tough people do.
Without him, I wouldn’t be me right now. I know that in this life and maybe the future one, he will always be the one because he makes me a better person. I’m so thankful to have him in my life and I’m glad that he’s the one that I will be marrying and spending the rest of my life with.